Ugh

So I was telling a mostly hetero friend about how Natalie Portman is open to the idea of falling in love with a woman. And I got a bit irritated at what she said:

Her: I'm not getting a good mental picture.
Me: Why?!
Her: Because I don't want to imagine Natalie Portman kissing a butch dyke.
Me: Who said it had to be a butch?
Her: Well, Natalie would be the girly dyke.
Me: Things aren't always so male to female.
Her: I suppose. It just doesn't sit well.

Gotta love stereotypes.