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I heart my best friends:
blueyedju: the other night i menstruated all over my bf's clean white sheets, and he insisted that i go back to sleep while he got a spray bottle and cleaned it up
ShaneMo: jesus
blueyedju: my point is that i strongly suggest getting into a relationship with a sweet sub boy who adores you
blueyedju: they're so much more fun than the tight-assed old dom men i used to like
ShaneMo: i have a weakness for tight ass dom men
ShaneMo: but i have been rethinking it
blueyedju: me too. but they're grouchy and a lot of work
ShaneMo: yes! very grouchy!
blueyedju: here is the difference between an old dom man and a sweet sub boy:
blueyedju: a sweet sub boy likes to please you for the sake of pleasing you
blueyedju: and he likes to excel at it and like...set your mind at ease, very "don't even mention it"
blueyedju: they get uncomfortable when you even say thank you
ShaneMo: hot damn
blueyedju: a grouchy old dom man likes to "please" you as part of his fucked-up power trip
blueyedju: "huhhhhh, look at me, i made you come. i am so powerful."
blueyedju: i'm like..WHATEVER. I COME WHEN I WALK UP STAIRS IN TIGHT PANTS.
ShaneMo: HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
blueyedju: THIS DOES NOT MAKE YOU SPECIAL.
ShaneMo: do you really?
blueyedju: ...sometimes
ShaneMo: my god
blueyedju: :D
ShaneMo: you are something else
ShaneMo: or maybe i am
blueyedju: my genitals are, anyway
blueyedju: nah, i'm definitely abnormal in this regard
ShaneMo: sweet sub boy sweet sub boy
blueyedju: i mean, i ain't gonna lie, my bf is one in a million
blueyedju: it's really his nature
ShaneMo: uh, yeah
ShaneMo: he asked you to fuck him w/ a strap on
ShaneMo: i'm sure that happens more often than ppl think, but still
blueyedju: but if you can find someone who's naturally so sweet and gentle and really enjoys pleasing others (cause if it is a natural, non-creepy thing for him, it won't be just you) fucking go for it
blueyedju: it's so much more fulfilling and pleasant and deep in a way. it makes you feel less weird about being a hardcore feminist in a ltr with a guy
ShaneMo: i had a casual thing w/ a guy like that. gave great oral sex
blueyedju: hahaha +
ShaneMo: but i got bored
blueyedju: well, boring people are...boring
blueyedju: and if you don't have chemistry you just don't
ShaneMo: he'd...buy me my favorite foods and keep a stock of it at his place
blueyedju: and all the great carpetmunching in the world won't change that
blueyedju: aw!
blueyedju: now come on, that's awesome
ShaneMo: hah, why do all our convos end up being about subbing and domming?